Families.....

So I just want to vent about family dynamics when married. I love being married but It is defiently harder when you are married to do your family things, and all the family dynamics. In my family we always help each other out without being asked for anything in return. We genuinely enjoy spending time together and always are there for each other. Its hard when you have to mesh your family and your spouse. I love Dan's family and I enjoy spending time with them. But they don't do a lot together and since mine does I think it has been hard for Dan to get used to that. Its funny because i am a very outgoing person and he keeps more to himself. That doesn't mean its wrong I am just not used to it. But they say opposites attract. In the last three years I am realizing that everyone is different, families are different. But the important thing is Dan and I's future family. I know that both of our families will be there to help and do whatever they can. I am very grateful to both of my families for what they teach me. For the love they show to us. I love Dan very much and I am learning to apprecaite his attributes and the things he will teach our children. Cause in the end its going to be about Dan and I and that we raise our family. Man its funny I will be 30 this year and I feel sooo "Old"....... I remember growing up being so excited to be married and have kids. And now its finally here. I am ready for the next chapter to come. Hopefully soon.... I am realizing my "kids' are stubborn tooo like there parents. Oh boy can't wait for the ride.....:)